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I never had the pleasure of meeting Victor, but Alphy, my husband, loved him dearly and I have heard countless wonderful stories of him.
Victor was my best friend since we met in 2014. We had a shared love for AOT and were each others confidant when he came out as Trans. I helped him every step of the way as a moral support as I am also Trans. Every single day I miss him more than words can express. I am so sorry for your loss. He was an amazing human being.
Im so sorry for your loss. Both family and friends. I had been friends with Victor for a short time and in that time he was an amazing man. Sorry that we lost touch :/ I regret it everyday. This is for you. For all the memories we did make. Thank you. Sorry to loved ones and friends that you have lost a dear man.
I met Victor online. Back in January of 2014. At that moment, Victor was known as Melissa by many, but for me, he was Eren, for his former name he didn’t think it suit him. I was present throughout the whole journey of finding himself and who he was really meant to be. I was present when the pitch of his voice changed, when he no longer had to bind himself, when he actually cut his hair, when the first hair on his chin appeared and when he legally changed his name. He was there for me through thick and thin. He had to hear me crying many times as well as laughing in the end. I am sad I never met him in real life. I never gave him a hug. A kiss on the cheek. A dance. A shake of the hand. And now I won’t ever get that chance. But I do know that he is finally at rest. Without having to worry if the medicine works, if he is a burden, if he will be able to move on from it. He always thought like that of himself when sickness struck him every once in a while. It made me sad I could not do anything. I sometimes wished I could see into the future to know if I just paid myself a flight ticket and run over there before anything happened but he always moved on. He always carried on. He didn’t give up on this. He fought till the end and I know it. I am happy I met him. Even if it was online. Sometimes you don’t need to see a person physically to love them and care for them. I will miss him. Greatly. And I hope we somehow meet again in another life, so I can finally give him a hug. My condolences to the whole family. He was an amazing soul and I am forever grateful to him.